Getting Out Of The Blog Dumps

For about 4 months, or so, surrounding my Dad’s sickness and death – I was in the blog dumps. For the first time since this blog was born in January 2004. It was a combination of things, but even as those things faded, I still found myself in the dumps. I just couldn’t get motivated to write. Now, for me? That meant instead of twice a day I was posting once every few days, which isn’t a huge deal in blog land. But for me? I felt like I had become the World’s Suckiest Blogger. I told Marilyn that I totally knew where she was coming from when she talked about her own blog flakiness. We’ve all been there, right? It’s just part of the cycle of a blog. Just like the river it has it’s eb and it’s flow.

(Hee. Love the overly-dramatic blog metaphors.)

I thought I’d share with you guys some of the ways I revived my blogself in case you find your blog in the same place. Of course, I’m no professional on blog advice, but these are a few things that worked for me.

  • Don’t write. (What? Seems contradictory?) For one night, instead of writing…cruise blogs. Start with a familiar one and start linking to others from there. Read entries everywhere you go. Click through links in the comments of the blog (because that will take you to other active bloggers) and try to choose ones you don’t normally read. Seeing new blogs, no matter how off-topic they are from your own, will open your mind to new blog topics. This will inspire many topics for your own blog, I guarantee it. Even if that topic is, “Why I Don’t Blog About _______.”
  • Continue the conversation on your own blog! I started emailing myself links from blog entries or articles around the web that I thought would give me good blog topics. Example? I emailed myself Marilyn’s entry linked above. Sometimes you read something and feel like you could respond with more than just a comment – but you don’t have time at that moment. Email it to yourself. Then, when you do have time, it will be there waiting in your inbox.
  • Carry a notebook around. Or maybe a piece of paper. Something small so that when that idea pops in your head throughout the day, you can jot it down. Sometimes, just the fact that we have something to document an idea with, aids in the idea being born. It will have you looking at things with wider eyes, scanning your experience for blog ideas. I’ve been amazed at how many more interesting things I observe now that the back of my mind is waiting for blog material. For example: There are THREE fire hydrants on my street between my house and the end of the road. About .8 miles. THREE. And I never noticed them before. WEIRD. Look on your street today…how many do you see?
  • Dig through your archives. Just sit down one afternoon and dig through some of your older entries. You’ll be amazed how inspiring it is because you’ll be reminded that it’s important you write. You’ll need those words later. Either to make you laugh. Or to make you cry. Or maybe just to make you wonder, “What in the hell was I thinking?”
  • Remember…unless you’re really trying to make money…this should always be simply: FUN. If it’s stressing you out maybe you need a break. If it’s not bringing you joy, why do you do it? There’s nothing that says you HAVE to do it. Some of the best relationships I’ve made blogging are with someone who no longer blogs. They don’t disappear, they just stopped blogging. No big deal. But remember, if you stop or take a break, backup your blog. You might want to start back and you don’t want to lose all of that hard work. The world would be a smaller place without entries documenting our stupid moments don’t you think?
11 Comments

11 thoughts on “Getting Out Of The Blog Dumps”

  1. Very sound advice! My “original” blog is suffering mightily at the hands of the travel blog I’ve started (and feel compelled to write in every day). But I always feel like there are so many things more I could be saying. The notebook, the continuing a conversation – fantastic! In fact, I need to end this comment RIGHT NOW and go write about it on my own site :)

  2. I really need this right now, so thank you. I’ve felt for months that my blog is just dragging along… I go back and read early entries and they somehow just seem better to me, even though it was generally just rambling and stream-of-consciousness writing. I think maybe I need to take a step back and not try so hard, but I am so stuck for topics lately.

  3. I think we all have blog funks…I know I do. And I agree – my best ways of dealing are to cruise other blogs and news articles for inspiration while not writing if I don’t feel like it. I don’t make money from my blog so I remind myself that I’m not obligated to anyone even though sometimes I feel like I’m letting down my 10s of readers. I throw up a cute kid picture if it has been a few days.

  4. I agree with this so much. I seem to stop and start more blogs so many blogs over the years, I’ve lost count. I think I’m finally in a good place this time around though.

  5. It’s funny – I was going with the ‘eat pounds of guacamole’ approach. It wasn’t working. So I think I’ll give your ideas a shot. :-) thanks

  6. I have a notebook for songwriting – maybe I should start one for blogging too. Because heaven knows I’ve been in the dumps on that one, too. I mean, heck, when you’re depressed, it’s dang hard to write anything that isn’t depressing!
    Also, stationary fiends like you and I can always use an excuse for another new notebook heh.

  7. You always seem to know how to get me! I have been such a slacker w/my blog, I don’t even know why I still have it! I am definitely taking your advice and linking to this entry whenever it is I get my arse back on track in blogoland.

  8. ps – please don’t ever stop blogging! i don’t know what i’d do w/o you and your blog around the interwebs!

    i’ve been an avid reader since we were both preggo back in 2005 (and you designed my Classic Pooh / Beach Skins –I was still on diddlysquat.net back then).

  9. “Carry a notebook around. Or maybe a piece of paper. Something small so that when that idea pops in your head throughout the day, you can jot it down.”

    Register tape totally counts, right?

  10. This is all great advice! I’ve gotten SO bad at commenting. I read tons of blogs, but I never think I have anything worthwhile enough to contribute, so I read “silently.”

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