I love YOU and YOU and especially YOU…You with the donuts!

There have been a lot of conversations recently about that stupid video (Remember? I said I’d look back and say it was just a stupid video!) that I wrote about last week. At first it was a lot of simple conversation, people adding their voices to the conversation. But, I’ve since found other entries from people picking sides and other people defending themselves and their position from those people who chose sides. Working At Home Moms v/s Working Outside The Home... Read More

Tips Of The Trade: Parenting Teenagers Edition

I’m less than 6 weeks from sending my oldest child off to his first day of high school. (I just threw up a little in my mouth.) This painful fact has had me thinking a lot about the very fast transition we made in Junior High. I thought the first years of a child’s life represented the fastest growth period – and it might – physically. But emotionally? It has got to be the 7th and 8th grade years. The roughest transition to me was one no one warned me... Read More

She still makes the “B” sound instead of the “V” sound…

She starts dance class today. It’s just a week-long introduction to see if she likes it. (Everyone in our family says simultaneously: Oh, She’ll like it.) I didn’t want to sign her up for anything for next year until I let her test it out a bit. Just in case her predilection for dancing doesn’t carry over to formal instruction. Unfortunately, classes like this are only offered during the day. So, I have to work a wacky schedule this week (or at least... Read More

Paperwork filed…Lessons learned…Faces punched.

You know what word I have started hating? Closure. I think about closure every day. I naively thought that after Dad died (after weeks of hospice) I’d be able to have closure on the whole tragedy and move on..cope…deal. Yeah. That’s what you would think, right? Wrong. As an indicator as to how much more my brother and I would need to deal with as the administrators of Dad’s “estate” (that’s a legal term that makes it sound way fancier... Read More

Testing 1,2,3, (Yellow!)

Love. Love. Love LilZ’s new shoes. I’m using this rainy weekend to update the design at my blog. Don’t leave the feed reader, however. It’s not that exciting. When it’s all working I’ll post a screen capture so that if you read from a feed reader you can still see what the design looks like. I don’t like to force anyone away from the comfort of their RSS feeds. Unless I can offer them donuts.  Read More

Hi. I’m Kim.

This is my blog that I've been writing on since January, 2004. I call myself Zoot as it's a derivative of an old childhood nickname. I used to write about my struggles to have children, but eventually I succeeded and now, I write a lot about those kids. I don't use my kid's exact names simply because if someone Googles their very unique names in the future, I don't want them stumbling upon my entries about boobsweat. I mean, would you hire someone whose Mom writes openly about such topics? NO. YOU WOULD NOT.

I love taking pictures and carry my camera (almost) everywhere I go. This means you'll see a lot of photos on this site. I also periodically post recipes I like as I've been slowly (but surely) learning to cook and I like to share my discoveries. Finally? I'm an annoying pop culture fanatic so I'll periodically ramble about Hunger Games or the latest Parks and Recreation.

I hope you like it here. If not? Please don't tell me. I cry easily.
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